This time the focus is on how the cooperation and balance between your inner man and woman can help you to create your new dream reality and also gives some practical tips, what could you do so that you could put it in practice in your life. Enjoy the reading and please share!

The importance of women and men in transforming this planet

These are two aspects which are super important as time goes by. Everyone should be responsible to balance their inner man and woman completely. When they are not getting along, co-creation is impossible. How is it possible to inspire them to become friends and create further from there?

Make an inner journey where you imagine that you are in a very beautiful place. If you like to be by the sea, be there. Imagine that your inner man and woman will come to this beach. Observe whether they come together holding hands or separately and whether they communicate. If they are not communicating, what and how could you do, so that you could inspire them to communicate? Could you introduce yourself to them and ask them what is their problem and what is it they need? Your task is to meet them like that at least for a month. By the end of that month if you have communicated with them well and followed their guidelines, there is a chance that they have got married with each other and become one. Through this your outer world will change as well – your seeds will grow into plants and your ideas will form into reality! As is the inner world, so is the outer!

Men and women in the old time energy

Old time men and women behaved according to the old patterns. In that chaos of patterns, the man was the holder of the rationality. He tried to avoid dangers and be very careful or only take risks well calculated. Old time women followed men without questions. The man knows what the man does. The women also suppressed a lot.

As they act together with their inner worlds, then the new time man has an inner connection with his inner woman, who has a very good relation to the higher spirit and intuition. New time men are not that afraid and they jump into the unknown with more courage, as they trust their inner feelings which are never letting them down. I know many young men here, who are doing some really crazy things, but at the same time very consciously, as they are holding the hand on the pulse of their intuition.

New time women are more connected to their inner man who is also connected to the higher self. So both of them have the bridge to the higher spirit, who knows how to create the best life. This will create the more flowing and easier communication between each other. From that point of view, all kinds of cooperation is so much easier.

New times creation

The foundation of the new time creation is the conscious co-creation between men and women. In addition it is the game between spirit and rationality. Reminding from the 2 week’s ago blog – spirit is the one who is on the top of the mountain and has the overview. The mind is the one who is in the valley and tries to move to the top with the help of rationality.

There the man will create the space of safety, where the woman can put the seeds into the soil and water these and through that grow the new garden.

Now is the time, where we should act now. I just read from the Estonian media, that the minimum salary in Estonia right now is around 390 euros. People are overworking, to manage their lives. Some have even two to three jobs. This is why Estonia may lose their smart people as they simply will leave.

Each of us has to find a new way to make your life work on your terms. We do not need to work crazy hours or too much. It is all about following your inner man and woman. The inner woman gives you the intuition and the inner man gives you ideas how to implement. All you need to do is to follow it step by step. I did that and it has given me my new life.

My first step was to surrender to my inner woman. When I got here to Mexico, I started to go to the ocean every day.

Swimming in the ocean I got more ideas and started to implement these. We had a small group of women, who started to participate in the ocean classes and after that I redeveloped my online course, which I formatted into other form.

It is a 6 months program, which is 200 pages long (English version will be out soon). The topics I have in there are relevant to everyone right now – relationship with yourself, others and health, sexuality and life mission and career and abundance. This way I am activating all my talents, skills and keep my spirit in action.

As I was listening to my inner woman, she helped me to work on the idea. The inner man created circumstances and structures, so that I could live in a safe environment. After that everything fell in place – new outer home, new partner and a job.

Job, where I could help to set up the movie nights for the 3 months, in addition my water sessions and healing therapies as well to edit some movie materials, handle the social media and promote it as well. I could also do the energetic clearing for the whole property. I could take many photos and work with visual editing. I could share my thoughts about better structure and system in this center and also in the new hostel. I could be the coordinator and at times the facilitator for the free dance classes, as well to participate in the aerial silks classes, which were only 20 meters from my home.

With the whole new team we helped to create a better reputation and people wanted to come here for breakfasts and lunches and events. I used ca 70% of my talents and skills, which I have not before. All this was possible, as we also did a written cooperation contract which was one of the reasons why this experience became a positive one for both parties. I live a very simple life, but a very full one.

I go to sail or surf with my friends whenever I can, adventure on the ocean with my kayak as often as possible and create small adventures in this area for myself and my friends.

I do my water therapy as possible, go to Alanon groups and create goddess evenings. My days are full and colorful and rich. I do not know what is boredom. I have very cool friends here. I live in the tropics for 12 months of the year. I live as sustainably and economically as I can on every level.

 I am not sharing all this in order to brag about myself, but to show you how the cooperation between the inner man and woman will give you outer results and creates a new reality.

When I came here I was in total emptiness. I did not know where to go or what to choose. I even had no desire to live. I was so tired of life in Estonia and I was empty and overworked and fighting the judgments and hate. It did not work for me and it felt like it covered me up.

This is the time for all of you to ask – do you live in order to pay your taxes and bills and manage your life barely or you live your life in order to enjoy it, create and do what you love and be where you love and with whom you love? In order to make that happen you do not need a million dollars. You just need to be smart.

In our center here we have had several young ‘workawayers’ They come for couple of months or more and work here every day with different projects and up to 3 hours per day. This gives the chance to get accommodation for free and they all have their savings to pay for food and other stuff. This gives a chance to enjoy the world, different places and cultures and do what they love or learn something new. Every time they leave I see tears in their eyes, as they really loved it here and they all try to come back here in the future.

If you have a family and you think, it is easy for you to say Crystal, as you do not have your child with you, your work and leases or loans where you live. But this is not a reason. I can see here how the families live even some months in the tropics and then return to home, while their children are doing home schooling while here. These are very exciting possibilities. The children learn more here than in the closed classroom. Men usually do some internet business or find a job here. Women are always super smart and create whatever they can, does not matter what the circumstances are. Some work 6 months in USA and then spend 6 months here. Everyone has found a version which is best for them. It is so cool to see people who enjoy their lives and are happy with it.

Our goal during these chaotic times should be to enjoy every moment and Tammsaare’s (Estonian writer) – work, sweat and pain and blood pattern which should give love and money – does not work any more. Now we need to understand what are our talents, skills and which ones need expression channels and create whatever possible from that. More people do that, and listen to their inner man and woman, faster and easier we can transform this planet from the suffering planet to pleasure filled planet. But this is in every reader’s hands and hearts.

Pls share with me your story of your inner man and woman or if you have managed to create your dream life.

I am Crystal Ra Laksmi. My inner man and woman got married years ago in Hawaii. Many times when they were making love inside of me, I felt so good that I had trouble to look serious as the energies were so sweet and full of pleasure. Lately I sent my inner man for a holiday in Hawaii as he had overworked. As soon as I did that I got an outer partner in my life. Sometimes our inner man is so powerful, that it does not allow or give the space for the outer man to come. Through the dance of my inner man and woman I have created a new life, which is helping me to create a new foundation where the old patterns have no place to be, where I am held, loved and present, as I love myself and everyone and everything around me. I have much more peace in my heart, abundance and presence. I hope that my story can become a little inspiration for you, that everything is possible. As Henry Ford was saying – when you say that it is possible or it is not – you are right! Your choice!

If you are troubled and do not know what is your mission or the combination of talents and skills which could help you to create your new reality, take contact with me and we can have a skype session, where we map these in cooperation with your inner man and woman and you can find the guidelines how to weave it all together so it works for you in your terms! Take contact with me through my contact page here.

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