This week’s blog is mostly talking about relations and how to look at it from a different perspective and what else is possible with it in the new times?

So here I am again – my face against the asphalt. How did that happen? Did I step into the very same hole again? Yes indeed, I did. Goodness gracious! Now I am completely clear about my focus and direction and sometimes our spirit gives us these challenges, so that we would really figure out what works for us and how. Two times, ok now I got it. This was the last one – I promise.

Letting go of pictures

The main problem is that when we create a picture in our head what we want and how and get so attached and sticking to it, that it actually imprisons us. The spirit in the new energy does not like that and will do everything to demolish that. In the new energy everything needs to be flowing like the water or in the air like the balloons.

But all of it has some systems, structures and sockets, where it lands. We just need to experience what we experience in order to find these or let them find us.

For most people this is hard to grasp as they always have wanted to have something solid and safe. In the new energy nothing will be rock solid or safe. Unsafe is the new safe, which should give us comfort. 

Women in the new time

All of us as women we should completely let go of the cultural pictures of what it means to be a woman or that men are out there to take care of us.

We have to figure out what and how works for us and then redefine and recreate our universes accordingly. The old patriarch system made us very dependent on men. They were keeping us under their power and we did not have much to say. Now women have good jobs, good salaries and are independent. We can make our own choices. Even though many sociologist and even anthropologists may say that this is not the best way to go, I actually would encourage women to do that.

Find your foundation, build it up financially and then you can independently choose where to live, with whom and how and you are the master of your life. It gives you the feeling of empowerment and becoming the true you.

Once your foundation is present, you do not need to gold mine any more. It actually turns to the opposite direction – men are starting to hunt you. They love the power, even though it scares them. The men who are not in contact with it, feel scared by it, but the ones who know it well and face it with pleasure, love it. That is probably also why the ’50 shades of Gray’ was such a popular book and a movie.

Men in the new time

Would there ever be a one man – one woman type of relationship type in the future? I would suggest that most probably not. When we get new time children taking over with their crystal and golden energies, it reminds me like the pod of dolphins, where everything and everyone is shared. The property as we know it from the old time as the relationship will vanish pretty soon. Some people may choose it, but it would be more rare.

The legal systems will be so much more advanced (if they still will exist) that there is actually no need to figure out who is getting what, as most people would maybe not even get married as we know it, but just choose to co-create and dance together and then move on without any big attachment to it or loss.

Men in this are the key element for this change, but they have a long way to go to first ground themselves in their own masculine energy and then open up for the new. The main first step is to hold space for the women. Most men do not understand what this means. It is something you have to experience. I am wondering if there is a man on this planet who would dare to hold space for me and not run away from my power and love and expansion? I have not yet met him. But there is always hope.

Harmonious relations

Harmonious well functioning relations are more a rarity than a rule. I would suggest everyone to mainly focus to balance and love yourself to the core and root yourself into yourself and Mother Earth and work with illusions and pictures and projections and dissolve all these which are not supporting your path on this planet. Let them all lose and go.

I am rerouting my life, my direction and possibilities. I am focusing on loving myself first and foremost. Men who would be interested in me have to prove themselves from now on as I know what I deserve.

I am grateful to all men and women who have loved me as their lover and partner as all of it has made me who I am today, but I also say that I am very conscious of what I choose in the future.

Home work

I suggest every reader to make a list of qualities what would work for you in a relationship and then stick to it no matter what. I slipped, but now I am back on my route. My mission calls me. I am the goddess of activation and transformation and I guess I am the one not to have and behold. I accept it.

I am Crystal Ra Laksmi and discovering who I am and what my relation to myself and others is. I am in a constant trial game and it has been entertaining. From now on I choose to be me no matter what and invite you to do the same!

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