Keys of the week – 1st of Dec – 8th of Dec Through the clarity of expectations lets talk the five love languages stepping out of the boxes enjoying the cocktail of power and humbleness

palmbushesblackwhiteThis week’s keys focus is on the expectations in relationships and how the five love languages can help you; how living in the box will restrict and limit you; how important are the lessons of the power and humbleness; what is the gift of the pain; how to start to listen to the Earth. Continue reading

Weekly photo blog – reinvent your life through magical moments in your life!

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Sry some of the weekly photo blogs get a bit late. I guess they are coming out on Mexican time. Please go and read the last big entry about my 1 year in Mexico here.

Here is another beautiful sunset photo from Mexico, from Mazatlan. I have seen many beautiful and breathtaking sunsets in Mexico. Continue reading

My 1 year in Mexico

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This story is my little summary of my experiences in Mexico especially during the last year. Read this if you think of relocating to Mexico or if you think visiting Mexico or have other interests in Mexico. This seems to become a new destination not only for the snowbirds but a new younger generation like myself, who figure out that there are other ways to live than just follow the stupid rat race and have no freedom at all. Read, get inspired and come for visit or join my retreats here! Continue reading

Weekly photo blog – the mermaid Luna

2stretchdance lunajumpcardCouple of weeks ago I had some Wantra sessions with my friends Stefan and Sandy. They also have a wonderful dog, called Luna. She was obviously also afraid of the water. While I was working with Stefan and Sandy and they got more connected and one with the water, so was Luna. I did some other magical words on her and invited her in. We did different tricks, so by the end of that day she was in the water with us, swimming.

Sandy and Stefan needed to travel and I volunteered to dogsit her. Today we had a nice walk to the marina and he assisted me nicely while I fixed another crack on my kayak. As a prize we went to the beach. She ran instantly into the ocean and stopped to wait for me. She started to swim almost instantly. If I was getting too far, then she was checking on me and wanted to rescue me immediately.

So suddenly the dog became a mermaid, without even noticing. She really enjoyed the swimming so much, going in and out that when we got home, she was so tired, that fell asleep like a baby immediately. It was so sweet to see how a dog’s life can also become transformed by water. I am so happy for her. So from now on I can offer Wantra for dogs as well. 😉 Thank you Luna for the experience!

All the love you are looking for lies in YOU!

crystalstretchpalmI have had some real intense experiences during these last 2 months. Today while walking home listened to a song which had that message in the title: ALL THE LOVE YOU ARE LOOKING FOR LIES IN YOU! It was a good reminder to me and I guess to everyone to never forget that! We are all so occupied to find love outside of ourselves that we very often forget to find it in ourselves. It gets us nowhere, as in the end we are going to have only ourselves anyway. I am so grateful for everyone who have been part of this journey to get me that far deep in ME. It has been a very deep and salty dive. I thought I have seen the rock bottom, but this was even deeper… Continue reading

Adventures from January till August 2013

My last newsletter from my old newsletter system went out 6 months ago. I was in a chaotic vortex and I needed a lot of cleansing. Now I have my new targets in place and here you have one part of my new newsletter. The new newsletter gets out through a-weber. If you have not yet left your email (leave it on the first page of the website on the right side) it is about time to do that as I share some real nice tips, advice and blog entries in my newsletters.

Summary of the activities and adventures

January till March – London

aablogwingskyI stayed in London to check out new possibilities for my new base in the world. I made several courses for the locals and participated in some of the bigger ones done by others. London as a city was fascinating, almost overwhelming, but living there on that particular moment did not really work. Maybe I lived with people who I was not supposed to? Maybe the timing was wrong, but all the sings where showing on this direction. I got very sick and had to travel to Mexico to get my health back on track. It was interesting that from London the ticket to Cancun was cheaper than the ticket to Estonia. The choice was not hard to make.

March – April Mexico, Cancun

picasa crystalnewmexicoI healed myself through the sun and the ocean and got my body back in shape in 2 months time. At the same time we started with a new online course for 6 months called Ettevõtlusjooga (business yoga) with my new cooperation partner. I joined with several of other projects, to get the foundation for my new life in order. One of these was to visit an event of 5000 people in Chicago, which gave me a lot of inspiration for the future. I worked mostly on the online project and prepared for the courses in Estonia.

May, June Estonia and Mexico – Puerto Vallarta

mirror  theoryI did many Access Consciousness® courses and worked on one to one clients and made bigger conclusions and sum ups of my life in Estonia. In the end of June I adventured back to Mexico, this time to the west coast. I participated in Organic StretchingTM Teachers Training, which was wonderful. After the course I decided to stay longer, to get my body and being more into balance.

July – August Mexico – Mexico, La Cruz, Bucerias

* In the middle of July I got the idea to make a documentary about Pat Henry and Organic StretchingTM.picasapatmemovdinner Magical events started to happen and I got offered 3 houses to take care of and in addition two volunteer proposal editors. It has been a hectic and powerful work we have done all together. Now the local filmmaker joined forces in addition to another one coming from New York. How lucky am I?

mermaid pond* In addition I started StretchDance in the Sea lessons, which have had really powerful results for all the participants, including myself. I did not only lose weight, but also everything and everyone else, which was not supporting me.

* I stepped out of 2 bigger systems, which I felt did not support me any more.

* In cooperation with others from all over the world two amazing new websites were developed:

www.cyrstalralaksmi.com

and the Estonian version:

www.crystalralaksmi.com/eesti

crystalralaksmiandwritersgroup* I met up with many new people and foreigners, who shared with me their trust, generosity, kindness from their whole heart. They did not only share their hearts with me, but also their homes! This is very unique!

* I got invited into some new global clubs, which may influence the world big time!

* I got back to my divine path and back in my zone!

I am really grateful for everyone who has crossed their paths with mine and contributed to me to get closer to my inner path so I can contribute more to the world and myself as well. Thank you, mahalo!

Is Monogamy Outdated?

picasatimeforchange2I wrote couple of articles about the free love some years ago in the Estonian media, as well as about tantra, but these did not get much of a feedback then.

Anthropologists’ target should be to focus on topics which are relevant in the society, and as soon as I saw this article, I thought it is time again to talk about this topic in public.

The story is up in The Independent (18th of August, 2013) ‘Monogamy is outdated, according to controversial BBC investigation’. Read it before you read my comment to it.

My comments about the story

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In 2008 I visited Zegg eco village, where they practise free love and polygamous relations in East Germany.

In this village they have a ‘love house’ and they have ‘flirting parties’ there. In that house they have different rooms, where people can do what their spirits and bodies would love to do.  The main target for the village has been to unite the spirituality and sexuality. Whether they have accomplished that or not I would let others to decide. 

As I have studied anthropology,  we had to read loads of stories in our curriculum about the cultural examples about different cultures and some of it was also about polygamy, where this is more of a practical key how to make the everyday life work sustainably.

For example in Tibet, where most of the men are out in the mountains with the cattle part of the time. In some of the villages they have agreements, where men are divided and some of them are up in the mountains and the others take care of the women and children in the village. One woman may have two or three men. When the child is born, it is not important, who is the father of the child as they will take care of all the children equally.

When I started to discover this topic on my own,  I got loads of judgments from other people (most of them were in conventional relationships and judged me exploring it as being a hooker). During this journey I got into total conflict with myself till I travelled to Hawaii to visit a local healer.

He saw this as  actually part of my bigger mission – to activate people like that – to be in relation with many several people at the same time while being in the flow. One after the other I noticed the pattern. I got to know a new man, we started dating. After some short period of time we had to break up and right after that they found their perfect long term partner. It happened over and over again.

My question to him was: ‘Why is it so

difficult for me to find one long term partner?’

He asked me: ‘Do you need him this way?

Maybe you are a natural poly person?’

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On top of that I discovered I am bisexual as well. So I tried to put together all the different parts. I had the possibility to live together with an amazing man and a woman for one month in Hawaii. This was the most functional and happy time in my life. We had a total trust, care and honesty.  The practical life was much easier and nicer, because we had a total team work and cooperation happening at all times.

The key for this cohabitation was this: we had very similar world views, we were all very conscious and sexually healthy and emotionally balanced people. We knew it would be just this one month, but I did not experience any jealousy at that time, drama or cheating at all.

Jealousy has roots in the uncertainty and self value. If one is certain in him or herself and the self value is in place, there is no possibility for jealousy. This is just my viewpoint.

This experience encouraged me, that this is not only utopia, but a real possible reality, if  I choose so. I think myself that it is very natural to be both with the woman as the man as it may balance the woman nicely. It may not be suitable for everyone, but it is a possible choice. 

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During my world travel I have actually met many of these very opened and expansive couples and people. It was a relief to know that there is nothing wrong with me and there are more of us out there in the world. We are looking for each other, maybe one day to create communities where we could live and co-habitat together. No this is not just hippie time coming back again. It is a conscious choice and creation.

Then I thought that maybe the idea of going deeply into a relation shift with one person is just an utopia as I have imagined, or some kind of implant which has been put into us by religions and systems or is it something else? 

One is for sure, the utopia of monogamy (the old version, where you can not be with others sexually) keeps many people in boxes and frames. But may work for some.

Take for example honesty. Watch some soap operas and bring in some real honesty. The whole idea of a soap opera disappears. Drama disappears. When two people who are in the relationship fall in love into an external person, it does not mean, that you should leave one and hide the other one. Where have we got with this hiding? 

I loved how they handled this topic in the movie ‘The Great Gatsby’. Everyone cheated on everyone, basically publicly and when they all got to the point to act according to the heart, it was all about the drama and the ownership waves hit over the head, which created even more drama.

My vision and sense is that monogamy may disappear even faster than 10 years. We expand in our spirit and body faster than we could think. In this expansion, we start to live a life without fear, where we do not have rules, have only the agreements and an opened communication. People could use the 4 V system, which would build a foundation to the sustainable harmony and balance on all levels in our life. (If you would love to get this system, register your name to the list on my news list on my webpage’s first page).

Everyone will of course choose which kind of relationship suits them. It is important to be tolerant. If someone chooses something conventional and it makes them happy, then why not and if not, let them be in peace and live their life too? 

The biggest key to change the world is actually ECSTASY AND HAPPINESS. How we get there, it is up to the choices. If these choices are done in consciousness, balance and honesty towards yourself and others, done with care, from your heart, it can be the main key to create the butterfly effect and activate it in the whole world.

 

winnieMaybe it is about time, where we have to become Winnie Poohs in our relation shifts as well, where we would not choose this or that, but choose both!

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Does this article resonate with you? Please share it with your friends and leave your comment!

Please share with me your thoughts, experiences about monogamy and polygamy!

How do you sense the future ‘relationship model’ develops? 

What kind of relationship model works for you right now? 

When it works, why? 

crystalblissThank you! 

Picture of the Winnie Pooh from blogs.indiewire.com

Hawaiian Healing Technique Ho’oponopono is your magic key to your Freedom!

loveuplumeriasToday, I will write about one Hawaiian healing technique which is very ancient and has helped millions of people in the world, including me.

These times we are now facing – full of turmoil, chaos, violence and so much drama in the world would benefit greatly from this amazing  Hawaiian technique!

I share first one article which I found online, written by Joe Vitale and share his vision and experience with the Hawaiian forgivness  technique.

You can click on this video and let it play while you read this article.

HO’ OPONOPONO

Joe Vitale

Two years ago I heard about the therapist, who healed a whole department full of patients,  who had the criminal background, as well as the psychic disorders. What was fascinating, was that the therapist managed to heal them even without meeting the patients.

Psychologist, who did some research on the patient’s files, looked inside of himself, to find the reason, how he had created that particular disease.

When I heard about this first time, I thought this must be some kind of a city legend. How could someone heal someone else, by healing yourself? How would anyone, even the best self help master manage to heal a psychopath with a criminal background? 

This was completely non understandable and not logical, so I just left the story. One year later, the story came back to me. I heard that the therapist had used the Hawaiian healing method, called ho’oponopono. I had never heard of it, but I could not leave the story this time. If there was any truth in it, I had to get to know about it.

I understood about the ‘full responsibility’ situation, where I am responsible for what I am thinking and doing. Everything outside of me, is not up to me. I think most people see ‘responsibility like that’. We are responsible for our actions, not for someone else – but seems that is not the case!

Hawaiian therapist, who healed these people, taught me about the full responsibility from another perspective. His name is Dr. Ihaleakala Hew Len. 

Our first phone conversation took almost an hour. I wanted him to tell me the whole story of  him working as a therapist. He explained that he had worked 4 years in the local state hospital. The department, where the psychopaths with the criminal background were held, was dangerous.

Usual story with this was the following. Psychologists left their positions just one month after they started working there. Many of the employees were on sick leave most of the time or just left work. Most people walked in the department leaning against the wall, being afraid of the patient’s attacks. This was not a very pleasant place – whether to live, visit or work.

Dr. Len told me, that he did not meet any of the patients. He just read their files in his office. While reading, he worked on himself and the patients started to heal. Couple of months later, the patients who had to be tied up before, could walk freely. Others who had to take loads of medicines did not have to do that any more. The others who seemed to be impossible, could be signed out. I was astonished.

This was not all.The changes influenced everything else as well. The employees wanted to come to work. Constant change of employees and quitting stopped. In the end they had more employees than patients, as the number of patients decreased and all the employees started to work again. For now this department is closed.

Then I had to ask a million dollar question:

‘So what did you do inside of you, what caused the change in these people?’ He answered: ‘I just healed this part of me, which they had created,’ he said.

I could not understand. Dr. Len explained, that in order to take full responsibility, it means you have to be responsible for everything what you have in life, as it is there – it is your responsibility. 

So to say – the whole world is your creation.

This was too much to swallow. To take responsibility for your own words and actions is one thing, but to take responsibility of all the actions and words what is in my life, is another thing.

Though it is true that if you take full responsibility for your life, then all what you see, taste, touch or experience whatever way, is your responsibility, as it is in your life. These would not exist, if these would not be part of the projected outer world. The problem is not in them, but you. In order to change them, you have to change you. 

I understand that this is difficult to accept, and to live accordingly. To accuse it is much easier. I understood while talking to Dr Len, that healing and his ho’oponopono healing method actually means loving yourself. 

Watch this little video here – what to do when your problem will not let go here: 

‘If you would love to change your life, you have to heal your life. If you would love to heal someone, even a criminal with psychic problems, you can do so by healing yourself.’

I asked Dr Len how he did heal himself. I wanted to know exactly what he did, when he looked into patient’s files. I just repeated: ‘ I am sorry, please forgive me, I love you, thank you’, he explained. I could not believe that was all. ‘That was all,’ he said.

Seems that self loving is the best way to develop yourself and if you do that, you can also change the world around you. 

I will bring an example how that works. Someone sent me an email, which made me upset. Earlier I would have dealt with it by working on my energy centers and trying to be reasonable to that person who sent this email.

This time I decided to use Dr Len’s method. I started to repeat: ‘ I am sorry, please forgive me, I love you, and thank you,’ not addressing it to anyone particular.

I just tried to activate some love, to heal something inside of me, which had created this situation. One hour later I got the response from that same person. He apologised for the last email. Remember: I did not do anything outside of me, for him to apologise in front of me. I even did not answer to his email.

Just simply saying ‘ I love you’ I had healed something in me, which was created by that person. Later  I participated in a seminar by Dr Len about the  ho’oponopono. Right now he is 70 years old and he is respected as a shaman grandfather and he has pulled back from active life. He loved my book  (‘The Attractor Factor’).

He said that when I develop myself, the vibration of my books will rise and everyone can feel it when they read it. Shortly: if I do that, it will happen to my readers as well. I asked him how is it with the books which are out there already.

He said: ‘These are not out there somewhere,’ once again astonishing me with his deep presence. ‘These are still inside of you.’

To conclude. The outer world does not exist. It would take a whole book to explain this technique in full detail, as it deserves. So for now it should be enough to say, that in case you would love to change something in your life, there is only one place where you can turn it: it is inside of you. If you do that, do that with love!

Divine Creator!

Father, Mother and Child as One…

If I and my family, my relatives, my ancestors have insulted you –

your family, your relatives or your ancestors in our thoughts, 

our our words or actions, 

from the beginning of the time till this moment –

we ask your forgiveness!

Let it dissolve, break free and cut away all the negative memory blockages, 

energies and vibrations and transform these into balanced light.

As it is said, it is done and cleared. 

I am sorry, please forgive me, I love you, thank you!

Ho’oponopono

Ho’oponopono – Morrnah’s Prayer

Morrnah SimeonaSpirit, Superconscious, please locate the origin of my feelings,
thoughts of (__________fill in the blank with your belief, feeling, thoughts________).

Take each and every level, layer, area and aspect of my being to this origin.

Analyze it and resolve it perfectly with God’s truth.

Come through all generations of time and eternity.

Healing every incident and its appendages based on the origin.

Please do it according to God’s will until I am at the present. Filled with light and truth.

God’s peace and love, forgiveness of myself for my incorrect perceptions.

Forgiveness of every person, place, circumstances and event which contributed to this, these feelings thoughts.

____

Please share with me if you have any similar stories and if you have experienced the Hawaiian healing technique?

Would you be interested to adventure to the birth land of Ho’oponopono with me this winter and practise it there and even meet some of the local kahunas (local healers)? Read more about it here!

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IMGP3873Happy me in Hawaii, after taking a course in Hawaiian healing techniques with the local Kahuna Harry Jim

My personal experience with the AuraTransformationâ„¢

Photo by C.R.Laksmi – November 2017, Hawaii

I am happy to share with you an amazing modality which has completely changed my life.

I got my AuraTransformationâ„¢ in February 2007 and became an Aura Mediatorâ„¢ in August the same year. I feel honored to have had the opportunity to introduce AuraTransformationâ„¢ to Estonia in September 2007. I was part of the Aura Instructorâ„¢ program from September 2008 to February 2010. I have done many AuraTransformationsâ„¢ over these years all over the world and still enjoy the process very much. For me it has been the greatest and fastest highway to myself. It has not been a quick fix or a walk in the rose garden, but I am much more connected with who I am, where I am going, what I am doing with my life and how I am contributing to the planet and for the future generations! Continue reading